So I found out my boyfriend's secret tonight. I feel hurt and betrayed and so freaking stupid. My boyfriend has been messing around on me for 2-3 YEARS and I believed him when he told me he loved me. This other girl literally had to comfort me and the worst part is that she and I actually have a lot in common and I think that under different circumstances we could be really great friends. She told me to stay with him. To talk things over with him. I don't know anymore. I don't know anything anymore.